“I don’t know about you, but this is my first effing global pandemic.” ~ Brené Brown I want my old normal back. I can’t count the number of times, before this whole mess, that I texted someone the words “same ole same ole” when asked what I’m doing or what’s going on. Is complacency a sin? Cause I did that. […]

“I hope you know it is okay if your strength looks a little different in this season.” ~ Morgan Harper Nichols Rosalind Walter died last Thursday. She was the red-lipped, muscle bearing Rosie the Riveter, who stood as a symbol of women in the workforce and in the bigger picture, women’s independence. International Women’s Day happened to fall just a […]

“Falling is an expected part of the process… adults learning something new should not expect to succeed immediately. Falling is part of what makes us human. Striving to grow and change…is a never ending process.?” ~ Jeff Adams I remember lying in the hospital room after my first daughter was born. In between night feedings, the nurses had, at my […]

“(My paper system) causes me to stay in the moment and plan my days with intent. I feel satisfaction when I physically check an item off my list.” ~ Anjali Khosla, editor of Fast Company Digital When my youngest was in elementary school, I forgot to pick her up after some kind of practice or event (I don’t remember exactly, […]

“I’m glad it’s finally hot enough to complain about how hot it is.” ~ searchquotes.com Greek mythology says the four seasons came to be due to a mother’s grief (and persistence.) Demeter was the goddess of the harvest, the wife of Zeus. Their daughter, Persphone, wandered too far from her mother while picking flowers. Hades, the god of the underworld […]

“If you don’t own a dog, at least one, there is not necessarily anything wrong with you, but there may be something wrong with your life.” ~ Roger Caras Timing is everything and that has never been more convincingly proven than the last few weeks at our house. For the past year, I’ve been systematically groomed for a second dog. […]

I think an excellent morning prayer is, “Whatever,” and a good night time prayer is, “Oh, well.”. ~ Anne Lamott Once again, Lamott comes to the rescue. Sometimes just a single word or two helps to simplify and figure things out. I have been struggling to write anything. I can barely put together this sentence without hitting the backspace key. […]

“It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson The more old friends change, the more they stay the same. Sorry, I couldn’t avoid using this tweaked cliche; it’s just the way it is. These people are the lifers. The ones who remember all the sordid details of […]

“Intelligent people learn from everything and everyone; average people learn from their experiences. The stupid people already have all the answers.” ~ Socrates Once upon a time I was sitting across a desk from someone for a reason that now escapes me. I was probably there to talk about work. Or maybe something completely unrelated to work. As with all conversations […]

One thing I’ve learned through all the ups and downs is that if you’re doing things right, then you have a core group of people. Not just a core group like your homies or your buddies, but a group of people that has a good influence on you, who you respect and admire, and you know that if they’re on […]